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2010-11-08T11:13:00.001-06:00

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This week at Bethel (I'm a seminary student in a distance program there), I had the chance to crash in a house with 7 grown adults living in it (there were only two showers and three toilets). All members of the same church. What amazed me more than anything was the level of sincerity they demonstrated as they interacted with each other and me. Can you imagine living in a home where you get asked how your day was 6 times?

To take things a step further, the city they live in prohibits street parking in the winter and including me there were 8 cars. The garage and driveway only hold 6 cars. As their guest, two members of the house volunteered to park their cars at their place of work and ride their bikes back and forth. Did I mention the warmest it ever got was 40 degrees?

Needless to say, this experience has renewed my interest in doing relationships in Christ well. I felt loved, I felt served, I felt included. I am guessing all of us can do a better job to provide this kind of community for our those around us. When was the last time you inconvenienced yourself for another in the name of Christ?

For me, it's been way too long. Here's to living out Jesus' first and second priorities.

Hi. I'm new here!

2010-11-03T08:47:00.001-05:00

I'm away from the fam at Bethel Seminary this week studying the minor prophets. The class is great, but it's pictures like this that remind me where I'd rather be right now. In this picture, Cal's shirt says Hi. I'm new here. and I have been unable to stop laughing about it. Aside from the onezie with a tie, this might get my vote for best baby outfit.

Heartbreaker

2010-10-29T11:34:00.001-05:00

Tell me this is not the cutest face you'll ever see...

Ignition Fall Retreat

2010-10-28T15:11:00.001-05:00

The Ignition Fall Retreat is coming November 19th-21st. Do you know a high school student in need of a chance to unplug, soak up God and cut loose with friends in a safe environment? Have them join us at Riverside the weekend before Thanksgiving as we dive into the idea that God is making all things new! To register, and learn more about all the other cool things Ignition has going on click here.

On the Lot: Week 1

2010-10-25T15:13:00.001-05:00

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Listen to Ignition Talks Online!

2010-09-13T15:48:00.001-05:00

Did you miss Ignition last night? We’re sorry!

Don’t worry though, Ignition talks will be posted online through this blog until we become smart enough to upload them to I-tunes. Enjoy!

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Last night’s talk centered around the idea that we all have felt invisible at some point in our lives and it hurt. Not everyone experiences this in the same way, but all of us in one way or another feel the need to be a part of a group and enjoy ourselves. The problem is not everyone is inclusive. In this talk, Andy Hermanson explores the fact that God sees us, even in our helpless state and he deserves our praise!

Join us this Sunday night as we look at our responsibility as Jesus followers to see the invisible!

Ignition Worship Band Auditions!

2010-09-01T13:48:00.001-05:00

Love music? Love Jesus? Ignition is committed to offering students a chance to lead their peers in worship this year and your opportunity to jump on board is coming soon. Join us Wednesday, September 8th as we give students the opportunity to audition for a spot on an Ignition worship team. Audition times begin a 5:30pm and run through the evening.

Have questions? Ready to sign up for a time? Email Matt at Matt.McNeece@hopewdm.org for more info.

Gwenyth Meets Callan!

2010-06-26T19:20:00.001-05:00

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Welcome Baby Cal!

2010-06-25T15:10:00.001-05:00

All 7 pounds and 7 ounces of Callan Andrew Hermanson made their way into the world on June 24th and it was GLORIOUS! It only took about twenty minutes before the thought suddenly struck "Holy crap! I have a son!". As usual, my wife reminded me again why she's my hero. She's an incredible mom.

With Gwenyth I started thinking about weddings and meeting future boyfriends and wondering what I need to do to help her truly realized how loved, gifted and powerful God has created her to be. With Callan I have had the latter thought, but honestly my mind has been more dominated with "When can we start rockclimbing together?" and "What are we going to light on fire first?" From what we've seen so far, this little guy likes things on his terms and he may just be a handful. Even so, I am pretty sure God has some cool plans for him. He's not even 24 hours old yet, and already I feel God giving me vision for his life and the courage to be all I can be for him.

Since it's been said that anything posted electronically can potentially live forever, I'm going to assume some day Callan will get to read this. What do I want to tell my son of the future? Callan buddy, I loved you even before you were born and we couldn't be prouder to be your parents. Please take it easy on us! Love, Dad.

Being an Apprentice of Jesus

2010-05-29T10:17:00.001-05:00

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I've been thinking a lot lately about Jesus (which makes sense I guess, because A) I'm a Christian or follower of Jesus and B) I work in helping others along their journey in or towards following Jesus), and I've really been challenged to rethink some of my assumptions. In my thinking and research I came across some material describing the process of growing in faith and devotion towards God as one of apprenticeship. Why is it this is often under-emphasized and rarely ever encouraged in our churches? If our mission is to "make disciples" according to Matthew 18, don't you think we'd hear more about that?

I thought the promo video for this series was interesting (really I just liked the accents) and told some cool stories. Take a look.

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A Leap of Faith

2010-05-24T12:34:00.001-05:00

I put this photo as my backdrop a while ago, and I still get nervous for this guy every time I look at it. Honestly, it has got me thinking about my life and my leadership in the context of my life. How often do I actually take a leap of faith? Even a step? I love this photo because this guy is committed! There's no turning back. He's most likely already feeling the rush of adventure. I don't know who he is or why on earth he'd do something as crazy as this, but I admire his courage and I'm praying the same for all of us today. What does it like for you to put those crazy, yet profound ideas in your head into action today?

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How to Quit Facebook Without Actually Quitting Facebook

2010-05-14T11:35:00.001-05:00

How to Quit Facebook Without Actually Quitting Facebook

With all the privacy issues surrounding Facebook, many people are considering quitting the site altogether. If you're not ready to take it that far, here's how to avoid the privacy breaches without completely deleting your account and losing touch with your friends.

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Should I Quit Facebook Altogether?

We've all had that one friend who deactivated his/her Facebook and was never seen again, because no one could establish contact. As if the telephone, email, and IM were never invented, many people are at a loss as to how to contact you if your Facebook isn't an easy click away. Even if the situation isn't quite that dire, Facebook is still how a lot of people keep connected, and severing that connection completely is a big deal.

But now, privacy-minded folks have many legitimate reasons you should quit Facebook (or reasons you should but can't go through with it), the same thing is on everyone's mind: Is the grief of quitting worth avoiding future privacy breaches?

The Less Extreme Alternative

Luckily, there is another, more middle-of-the-road option. That's not to say this isn't still extreme—this isn't for the faint of heart. It isn't a tutorial about how to change your privacy settings. This is a tutorial on how to create the most minimalist Facebook profile possible, with as little information on yourself as possible, to be used only for communication between you and your friends. You won't be able to do much on the site; you probably won't even visit the site that often. This is not for people who want to continue using Facebook; it is for the people who are ready to up and quit tomorrow, but don't want to miss out on the next party just because they care about their privacy. So if you're really ready to give up wall posts, comments, Farmville, and fan pages, here's how to proceed without falling off the face of the Earth.

Create a Disposable Email Address for Your Account

We've talked about disposable email addresses before, and most people probably already have one. (The idea being that if you create a second email address for free and sign up for the sketchy sites with it, you won't have to deal with spam in your main account later on.) With all the bugs and privacy gaffes surrounding Facebook, it has certainly become one of those sites you could call sketchy.

With this email address, you can also set up notifications for messages and event invites and get all that by email (so you don't ever have to actually "check" Facebook), and even forward it to your main email account. That way, you won't have to check this separate one, but if something ever happens (like Facebook making your email public for 30 minutes), you can delete the disposable address, make a new one, link it with Facebook, and not have to deal with the spam forever. You can use any service to do this, but I'd personally just make a new Gmail address separate from my regular Google account, sign into it using Private Browsing mode (so you don't sign yourself out of your regular Gmail), set up the forwarding filters, and forget it. (To set up forwarding, just log into your disposable account, click Create Filter, and set the filter to forward any email From:facebook to your real account. If things get ugly, you can always turn the filter off.)

Create a New Account and Transfer Your Friends

Technically, this part is optional, but I also think it has the biggest impact on how the rest of your experience will pan out. You could just edit all the information on your current account, but if you make a new one and delete the old one you'll have a completely clean slate. You won't have any posts lingering around anywhere, no personal information for the taking and no photos tagged of you. Plus, this is prime time to get rid of all your friends that you don't need. Do you really still need to be Facebook friends with that girl you met at that party that time? Didn't think so.

This process is actually quite simple, especially because you have a new email address as created in step one. Log out of Facebook and create a new account using that email address. Don't enter any information, and for now, don't make any new friends except with yourself (you'll need to friend your old account for this to work smoothly). Bask in the glory of that clean, privacy-filled profile, and then log back into your old account and accept the friend request to your new one. Alternatively, open up a second browser and use one for your old account and one for your new account, just for this process—you'll be switching back and forth a lot.

Conveniently, Facebook will then ask you to suggest friends for your new account (if not, you can do so by visiting your new account's profile page from your old account). This is the part of the process in which you'll transfer over the friends you actually want with one fell swoop—no spending hours searching each and every one of them out. Go through the entire list of your friends and check off the ones you want to keep. It won't take nearly as long as you think it will, I promise. Click Send and then move over to your new account. All those suggestions will be pending friend requests that you can run through quickly and add each as a friend (again, it looks like a tedious process, but shouldn't take too long) and you'll have all the friends you need.

If you want to hold on to your old account during the transition, that's fine, but the point of making a new one is to delete all the old stuff, so when you're ready, go ahead and delete (not just deactivate) that old account. It'll try to tempt you into staying by showing you pictures of your friends, but you can press continue without guilt knowing you're still going to (mostly) be around.

Turn Off the Wall on Your Profile

There are a few privacy settings we need to tweak on the new account, so hit "Account" in the upper left hand corner of your window and click Privacy Settings. The first area we'll venture into is "Personal Information and Posts" to turn off the wall. This way, you won't have your profile covered with the stupid things your friends say; it'll just be your very barren news feed.

Everything else here can stay the same; you don't need to make anything else private. You aren't going to be making any posts, you aren't going to be filling out information, and you aren't going to be uploading photos, so no need to cover them up. Again, keep in mind—this isn't about changing privacy, this is about quitting unecessary Facebook activity, so it doesn't matter what these privacy settings are. They're just going to go public again after the next redesign, so why mess with them now?

Hide Your Email Address

Next, head back to your Privacy settings and go to "Contact Information". You could add more info here, like your phone number, if you want your friends to have easy access, but we've already seen how Facebook can make information public, even unintentionally. That's why we created the junk email address back at the beginning of this process. I'd just leave it all blank.

Down next to your registered email address is the privacy setting for who can see it. Click on it and hit customize. In the dropdown at the top of the popup window, choose "only me" and click save. Your email address is now hidden from everyone, including your friends. If you want to make it visible to them, you can—sometimes people get in a bind and may want to contact you via email with something that physically can't be send via Facebook message—but again, it's just a junk email address. You don't want your friends actually thinking that's your address, because then you have a lot more work to do if you ever have to trash it and get a new one as mentioned above. Just keep it a secret.

Hide Media Tagged With Your Name

As of right now, you can only keep tagged photos and videos out of search results and off your profile. There is currently no way to actually prevent people from tagging photos of you. With this setting, people won't be able to see photos of you from your profile page, but if they get to the picture by other means (by, say, looking at the actual album or linking to it from the profile of someone else tagged in it) they will still see your name on the photo. Yes, it's a glaring omission from the privacy features in Facebook, but it also doesn't matter much. Unfortunately, the responsibility does and will always have to lie with your friends that are uploading pictures. Facebook will never be able to stop them from uploading a picture of you, and they'll never be able to stop that person from tagging that photo with a name, any name (including yours), whether or not it is linked to a profile. But even if it does, your profile is completely empty. What's the difference between it linking to your empty profile and being unclickable text? The only fool-proof solution to the photo tagging problem is to kick your friends in the shin if they post embarrassing pictures of you. Or, you know, get some more mature friends.

To stop tagged photos from showing up on your profile, though, go back to Privacy Settings and hit "Friends, Tags, & Connections". Edit the "Photos and Videos of Me" setting just like you did in the last step so only you can see the tags, and save the settings. This will delete the link to "photos of you" under your profile picture.

Hide Yourself from Facebook and Google Searches

You can tweak this next step to your liking. You probably don't want your profile showing up in Google, but if you want people to find you on Facebook you might want to stay in those search results (since people won't be able to find you through activity on your friends' walls, because there won't be any). At the same time, you may wish to have complete control over who you become Facebook friends with, and that's fine too. In Privacy Settings, hit up the "Search" section and uncheck Public Search Results. Set your Facebook Search Results to whatever you want the same way you did for photos.

Lock Down Applications (Just In Case)

This is the one area where I would just make everything as private as possible. You never know what those darned applications are going to do, and while you're not going to be running around Facebook installing anything, you can never be too careful. I wouldn't even recommend you stay logged into Facebook while you browse the web, since we've all seen they're always watching you. Under Privacy Settings, head to Applications and Websites and go nuts. Edit what your friends can share about you and what you can share about your friends down to nothing, and set your activity visible only to you. Again, keep in mind that even if applications were to share your information—you don't really have any information to share, so you're probably safe. The darned things are just so annoying that I'd like to lock them down as much as possible.

I'd also go into notification settings (under Account > Account Settings > Notifications) and turn off any notifications having to do with applications. In fact, while you're there, you might as well turn everything else off except for messages, event invitations, and (if you want) photo tagging, because you won't be doing much else on Facebook, so there's no reason to clutter up your inbox. Every once in a while, it's probably a good idea to log in and clear all your unnecessary notifications, but other than that, you should be able to get the few necessary features to notify you via email.

While I'd like to say you won't have to pay attention to Facebook's privacy gaffes ever again, that just isn't the case. With each redesign, you'll want to do a quick scan of either the privacy settings, policy, or just the blogosphere to see what fresh new hell Facebook unleashes, but in general, no matter how much of your information they try to share, there isn't much on this minimal profile that can get out there. There are a few things Facebook will always have on you, such as your email address and list of friends, so these are the important things to check up on. But if you don't have anything else on your profile, it's hard to see how applications taking information from your profile is going to be a big disadvantage if there isn't anything on it to take.

Your life won't be completely free of Facebook drama, but it will be significantly easier since you won't have to pour through how-tos (like this one) trying to figure out how to get everything set straight again. It should be a pretty easy process from now on. And, best of all, your friends can't complain about you being "hard to get a hold of", and you won't miss out on the next gathering just because the invitation went out on Facebook. To be perfectly clear, though: I'm not saying this is what everybody should do. If you're not violently furious with Facebook (I'm personally not), let it go. But, if you are seriously thinking about quitting, I think this is a set-up to consider, if you haven't already. If you have, be sure to share your tips for a minimalist Facebook in the comments.

Send an email to Whitson Gordon, the author of this post, at whitson@lifehacker.com.

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grewal12 09:28 AM

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Delete your account or just don't put sensitive info on Facebook. Reply

gpzbc 09:25 AM

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Thanks for the detailed write-up. I swear, I have to comb through these FB settings once a month because it is constantly changing. Reply

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pkoutoul 09:23 AM

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But... don't all your friends have to accept your friend request again? I hope this idea doesn't catch on!
Seems to me a better solution would be just to delete everything from your current profile, adjust your privacy settings, and be done with it. Reply

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Dwayne Harris 09:17 AM

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This is ridiculous. Reply

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OMG! Ponies! 09:14 AM

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If your friends only interact with you through Facebook, they're not your friends. Reply

dragoncooler 09:13 AM

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hide this....hide that... Give it some time, it wont be hidden anymore. /2cents. Reply

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Buster Friendly 09:11 AM

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You forgot the most important piece:
While logged into Facebook, do not do anything else on the entire web until you log back out. Reply

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LifeHacker brings you some options if you're struggling with what to do with your facebook account. I'm still wading through these waters trying to decide...what implications do facebook's new privacy policies have over your use of social media?

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Worship on iPhone?

2010-05-13T10:25:00.001-05:00

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Rend Collective Experiment lays out this incredible video. Has your worship gotten a little stale lately? Maybe it's time to rethink exactly what worship is.

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Follow along and join us in praying for Mishenski!

2010-03-02T15:25:00.001-06:00

With less than two weeks to go before 25 high school students and leaders board a bus in search of Holy Spirit adventure and a deeper experience in trusting God, we realized we have the potential to bring you along virtually on this trip. Throughout our week together we'll be posting comments, pictures, video and more right here. We could really use your prayer support before, during and after this trip takes place.

Check out the feed below for what is taking place and how you can pray!

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What a light show!

2010-02-09T13:41:00.001-06:00

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A friend sent me the link to this video. Left me speechless. Enjoy!

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Snow Fun!

2010-01-18T19:01:00.001-06:00

Heather and Gwenny finally got a chance to head outside an play in the mountain of snow that has drifted in the front yard.

They say it comes naturally...

2010-01-16T13:41:00.001-06:00

Pretty sure she knew exactly what she wanted!
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Birthday date night with wife!

2010-01-15T20:39:00.001-06:00

I love this lady. Nuff said.
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It's the simple things...

2010-01-14T18:35:00.001-06:00

It seems it s the simple things that I love most about my daughter. Whether its the fascination with a light switch, her ability to take a header off the couch or her love of a ride in the laundry basket, the little girl gets me to slow down and enjoy almost anything.
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Gwenny's best friend!

2009-12-27T16:15:00.001-06:00

Gwenny got her Christmas wish here in MN. A chamce to hag out with Nora!
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Merry Christmas from the Hermanson's!

2009-12-26T15:56:00.001-06:00

Hope you've enjoyed your Christmas holiday as much as we have! Merry Christmas!